4 thoughts on “My boyfriend does not agree with me to raise a second cat. How can I persuade my boyfriend?”
Sherman
I think that being a person can not be too selfish. Obviously your boyfriend is unwilling to raise a cat, but he agrees that if you raise the first cat, he proves that he loves you very much. Why can't you accommodate him? I have already raised one, why do I have to raise a second? If he agrees to let you raise the second one, maybe you will have the third and fourth one in the future, then he will really feel very collapsed at that time.
It is not a very important thing to raise pets. If it is said that this matter affects your relationship with your boyfriend, it is really not worth it. You like cats very much, but he doesn't like it, but he is willing to raise a cat for you for your willingness to compromise. In order to make you happy, he is willing to raise a cat, but you can't increase the conditions unscrupulously because he compromises. The two of you have no common hobbies, so only one person can choose to concession, then you can't let him give up forever?
Mi people always feel that I just want to raise a cat? Do you even disagree with this little thing? If you don't agree, you don't love me enough. In the relationship, it is necessary to pay in both directions. You can't bear it as long as one person, no matter how much your boyfriend loves you, if you say that you are unscrupulous to break through his limit, in the end he will definitely change his relationship with you in the end of. The rhythm is so fast, and the usual life is already very busy. It is not easy to raise a cat. Do you have to raise one?
So I don't think you need to persuade him to respect his opinions, just like he respects you. Maybe some people think that cats don't need to go out, and they are not so troublesome at all, but in fact they are not like this, cats are also very troublesome. If you are borne by him because of raising a second cat, or changes in feelings, you are not as good as before, do you think it is really appropriate?
You can tell the other party that if there is a pet in the home, you will feel particularly happy, and the two cats can accompany each other, not let the cat feel lonely.
You can let your boyfriend look at the cat you want to buy in the future, and you can also let your boyfriend see the cuteness of this cat. You can tell your boyfriend to buy this cat to accompany another cat. Your boyfriend is coquettish.
If you tell your boyfriend to raise a cat, the cat ear will feel particularly lonely, so two cats should be raised so that they have a companion to each other, so that they are more humane
I think that being a person can not be too selfish. Obviously your boyfriend is unwilling to raise a cat, but he agrees that if you raise the first cat, he proves that he loves you very much. Why can't you accommodate him? I have already raised one, why do I have to raise a second? If he agrees to let you raise the second one, maybe you will have the third and fourth one in the future, then he will really feel very collapsed at that time.
It is not a very important thing to raise pets. If it is said that this matter affects your relationship with your boyfriend, it is really not worth it. You like cats very much, but he doesn't like it, but he is willing to raise a cat for you for your willingness to compromise. In order to make you happy, he is willing to raise a cat, but you can't increase the conditions unscrupulously because he compromises. The two of you have no common hobbies, so only one person can choose to concession, then you can't let him give up forever?
Mi people always feel that I just want to raise a cat? Do you even disagree with this little thing? If you don't agree, you don't love me enough. In the relationship, it is necessary to pay in both directions. You can't bear it as long as one person, no matter how much your boyfriend loves you, if you say that you are unscrupulous to break through his limit, in the end he will definitely change his relationship with you in the end of. The rhythm is so fast, and the usual life is already very busy. It is not easy to raise a cat. Do you have to raise one?
So I don't think you need to persuade him to respect his opinions, just like he respects you. Maybe some people think that cats don't need to go out, and they are not so troublesome at all, but in fact they are not like this, cats are also very troublesome. If you are borne by him because of raising a second cat, or changes in feelings, you are not as good as before, do you think it is really appropriate?
You can tell the other party that if there is a pet in the home, you will feel particularly happy, and the two cats can accompany each other, not let the cat feel lonely.
You can let your boyfriend look at the cat you want to buy in the future, and you can also let your boyfriend see the cuteness of this cat. You can tell your boyfriend to buy this cat to accompany another cat. Your boyfriend is coquettish.
If you tell your boyfriend to raise a cat, the cat ear will feel particularly lonely, so two cats should be raised so that they have a companion to each other, so that they are more humane